Resources

Resources for families navigating grief

We believe families deserve access to trusted, research-informed support at any time. These resources are curated from nationally recognized leaders in children's bereavement, grief education, and trauma-informed care.

Ages 2-18

Children & Teens

Grief changes as children grow. These resources are organized by developmental stage, from early childhood through young adulthood, including activities, guides, and peer support programs tailored to each age group. Organizations like the Dougy Center, Sesame Workshop, and Comfort Zone Camp offer materials families can use at home or with a counselor.
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Parents & Caregivers

Caregivers often carry their own grief while supporting their children. These organizations provide trusted education and guidance.
Parenting Through Grief
Topics include: holiday grief support, managing anniversaries, supporting children after suicide loss, and talking about traumatic death.
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Schools & Community Professionals

Grieving children spend much of their time in school and community environments. These resources support trauma-informed responses.
Professional Education & Training
These resources are helpful for: youth-serving nonprofits, faith communities, volunteer facilitators, and community partners.
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Specialized & National Programs

Some families may benefit from programs outside traditional weekly peer groups.
Peer Bereavement Camps
Free bereavement camps and year-round programs.
Military-Specific Support
Military survivor peer support and youth mentorship.
National Bereavement Center Directory
Helps families locate children's bereavement centers nationwide.
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Immediate Help & Crisis Resources

Valerie's House Northwest Florida provides peer-based grief support groups for children and families. We do not provide crisis intervention or emergency mental health services.

If you are concerned about your child's immediate safety or emotional stability, please use the resources below right away.
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

If your child or teen is:

  • Talking about wanting to die
  • Expressing thoughts of suicide
  • Engaging in self-harm
  • Experiencing a mental health crisis
  • Overwhelmed and unable to stay safe

Call or text 988 or visit 988lifeline.org to chat online.

The 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline provides 24/7 confidential support, trained crisis counselors, support for youth and adults, Spanish-language services, and specialized support for LGBTQ+ youth.

If there is immediate danger, call 911.

Local Emergency Services

If your child is in immediate danger or you believe they may act on thoughts of self-harm, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.

If possible:

  • Stay with your child
  • Remove access to anything that could be used for self-harm
  • Speak calmly and clearly
  • Tell responders that your child is experiencing a mental health crisis

Emergency departments can provide evaluation, stabilization, and referral for ongoing care.

When to Seek Urgent Help

Grief is not a disorder. Many behaviors are common after a death, including sadness, anger, withdrawal, sleep changes, or difficulty concentrating.

However, urgent support is recommended if you notice:

  • Persistent statements about wanting to die
  • Giving away possessions
  • Major behavioral changes that feel sudden or extreme
  • Self-harming behaviors
  • Inability to function at school or home
  • Intense hopelessness that does not ease

If you are unsure whether your child's behavior requires crisis support, it is always appropriate to call 988 for guidance.